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The writing on the wall

February 25, 2012 by Dave Knadler

I guess my favorite thing about Facebook is the way friends and family send birthday wishes when my special day rolls around. I know, they’re being reminded by the machine. And yeah, it’s pretty easy to type a few words on a person’s wall. But it’s also pretty easy not to. I have to admit that all those messages today made me feel appreciated by the people I care about, and it renewed my appreciation for them in return. I like that warm and fuzzy feeling. Facebook might be a poor substitute for real face-to-face contact, but it’s a lot better than nothing.

I have a friend whose mother died awhile back. I didn’t write anything on his wall because to me it felt facile, a trivial way to offer condolence for a terrible personal loss. But he told me later that all the messages he got via Facebook were a great comfort. I felt kind of ashamed. I was too high-minded to use Facebook, but the thing is, I never got around to sending a card either. From that I learned this: Where true friends are concerned, the words matter a lot more than the medium.

Anyway, another trip around the sun. I’m growing older and uglier, but sometimes I think I’m also growing marginally wiser. I have no proof of that. And I might not have jumped at the deal, had it been optional. But youth must fly, and with it vanity. If you get anything in return, you should probably not complain.

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Comments

  1. John H. says

    February 27, 2012 at 12:54 am

    Happy birthday, Dave.

    • Dave Knadler says

      February 27, 2012 at 2:53 pm

      Thank you, sir!

  2. missy holcomb says

    February 27, 2012 at 12:54 pm

    Sorry I missed your Birthday Dave! Hope you had a good one! I agree with you on the words being more important than the medium.
    I have had some comforting words come my way recently through fb and they really made me feel better.
    I disagree with you on you getting uglier, I think you are very handsome!
    Peace be with you brother!

    • Dave Knadler says

      February 27, 2012 at 2:53 pm

      Very kind of you to say! Thanks!

  3. Joan says

    February 27, 2012 at 1:09 pm

    Happy birthday, Dave.

    • Dave Knadler says

      February 27, 2012 at 2:54 pm

      Thx, Joan. A man doesn’t need birthday wishes, but they sure don’t hurt.

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